Mom is not only a word. She is a world in the art of life, with the embodiment of beauty, acumen, and tutelage. The life of a single mom are not that easy, bearing the pain she endeavors and delivers happiness with love.
The challenges she faces are much harder than excepted in the battle of life. Sometimes she is forced or been a single parent by choice.
Being a single mom is not as simple to live in society. But they are like a unicorn, to manage the items alone and balance their work/life environment.
A Single Mom builds her stiff foundation with the bricks others throw at her as an example.
Every woman wants to possess a cheerful and healthy family with kids, but sometimes their destiny changes, strengthen them in creating their identity.
This article describes the life of a single mom, a long short story towards realism.
She handles the hardest job:
For every sole mother, playing dual roles at a time is not comfortable. They drive in providing all the requirements of the youngsters as motherhood, parenting, tutor, caterer, nursing, defender, and protector, raising them to a successful person in society.
She prepares in taking care of her mentally and physically to face the world as a solo performer in creating a milestone.
Every single mom has a different story. They grab every opportunity to beat the obstacles and become a strong-headed woman with energized and content.
Runs the family:
When she on boards for the first time as a single mother, taking the responsibilities to manage the edge of paper-works bills, children schooling and their future, personal correspondence, and family commitment.
She wipes-off (coping up with the loss of the partner) her sorrows and overwhelms to forecast the requirements of the children because the only breadwinner of the family
Some challenges most single mom faces:
a. Activate to additional responsibilities
b. Auto-Adjust to an all-rounder, when needed
c. Able to face everything as a one-man army
d. Balance work and residential life to drive the family
She make-up her new-fangled way of life
i. In her career or business
ii. Dealing with an emotional state
iii. Bypass the fear iv. To get on her own
Keeps an eye fixed on Children’s Safety:
The most worrying chore every parent concerns is about their children’s safety in everyday life. Child-rearing becomes harder if the child is special.
Being a lone mother, the custody of the kids happens more important in their absence. Mom suffers in spending the quality time with the kids on Babysitting, Day-care, and regular pick-up & drop-off to schools.
She keeps an eye fixed on the children when they are in and out of the house, so kids shouldn’t feel isolated, depressed, or feeling sad, leads to take the wrong decision.
The bonding between Mother and Child is stronger towards children’s safety and involves them within the sense of communities with their extended family members and friendly groups.
When children become matured to understand about their mother’s difficulties, they realize the importance of a sole mother in their lives.
Enduring Social Isolation:
All women will feel isolated at one point, but the isolation varies for single mothers throughout motherhood.
How the sole mothers deal with the isolation when they constantly need people to support?
a. Sometimes she feels to take a breath, and wish for someone to ask “Are you okay?”
b. Though she connects with the social network groups, virtual presence chatting differs from physical chit-chat.
c. In the early decades, she feels odd to take part in family functions or gatherings, as society and customs may treat her disparate.
She needs companionship to support in emergency or panic situations. Mom engages herself to overcome the loneliness, taking her children to an excursion on weekends and holidays and greet the children’s friends, to see how their younger ones enjoying their time.
Although she feels lonely, she just wishes to share her stories with the loved ones.
We are living in a wave of loneliness. She volunteers herself to connect with the colleagues and neighbors, to lessen the stigma of isolation.
“Every single mom plays to be strong, allowing them to be known and heard in owning to do all by her own.”
Mom, as a sole provider, managing life is an enormous challenge when comes to monetary support. She turns to plan and live with reasonable budgets in savings & credits and prepares to deal in an urgent situation.
In low-income family, single woman who work for daily wages become a nightmare to save money for the family and children. Some families cannot afford a proper education for their children but want to feed them without starvation.
Every single mother experiences the financial hardship in and as,
a. Individual monetary responsibility for the family
b. Strive to serve the kids with primary needs for their survival- food, shelter, clothing, education, etc.
c. Accountability for the payable bills
d. Avoid physical rest in normal illness
e. Endure mental sickness – Sleepless nights, Stress to overcome the trauma
f. A non-stop working individual.
g. Sacrifices her need to deliver the children’s desires
The life of a single mom can be strenuous at times. She has to show up kindness as a female and firmness as a male to make ends meet.
She takes all the responsibilities on her shoulders and takes her path to lead the family as a commander. She carves herself to handle the hard times with no support.
No matter if she is rich or poor. Mother’s experience sometimes they are alone even when people are around.
In today’s world, women’s safety is a burning issue in all countries. To be a lone parent, she needs to take care of herself and her children’s safety. Sometimes she needs to take a back to follow her dream due to security concerns.
She may feel like is she is incomplete – but it is not true. When she has the choice of being a sole mother, she empowers herself and shows her strength not physically but mentally too.
Single mom step-out confidently and fearlessly to showcase her values in empowering children and fulfilling her aspirations and enjoy the happiest moment when she realizes she is the role-model of her children.
“She has big dreams in her little hearts”